totemconfig: Make sure join timeout is less than consensus

The thesis contains this paragraph:

" The Join timeout is shorter than the Consensus timeout and is used to

increase the probability that Join messages from all currently
working processors are received during a single round of consensus."

Empirically I can confirm that making join less than consensus can cause
havoc with a cluster so I think we should enforce this.

Signed-off-by: Christine Caulfield <ccaulfie@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Jan Friesse <jfriesse@redhat.com>