totem: Add cancel_hold_on_retransmit config option

Previously, existence of retransmit messages canceled holding
of token (and never allowed representative to enter token hold
state).

This makes token rotating maximum speed and keeps processor
resending messages over and over again - overloading network
and reducing chance to successfully deliver the messages.

Also there were reports of various Antivirus / IPS / IDS which slows
down delivery of packets with certain sizes (packets bigger than token)
what make Corosync retransmit messages over and over again.

Proposed solution is to allow representative to enter token hold
state when there are only retransmit messages. This allows network to
handle overload and/or gives Antivirus/IPS/IDS enough time scan and
deliver packets without corosync entering "FAILED TO RECEIVE" state and
adding more load to network.

Signed-off-by: Jan Friesse <jfriesse@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christine Caulfield <ccaulfie@redhat.com>