Refactor: daemons: Condense duplicated IPC code.

Both places that call lrmd_process_message first add several additional
attributes to the request XML, so it makes sense to move that code into
lrmd_process_message instead.

Note that there are two different approaches to setting client->name if
it's missing. I don't see why the attribute would ever be missing, so I
think it's safe to get rid of the lengthier approach that grabs the
client PID as a last option.